SMILING IN CHURCH…11/18/08
by SteveFrom an old Erma Bombeck column:
In church the other Sunday, I was intent on a small child who was truning around smiling at everyone. He wasn’t gurgling, spitting, humming, kicking, tearing the hymnals, or rummaging through his mother’s handbag. He was just smiling. Finally, his mother jerked him about and in a stage whisper that could be heard in a little theater off Broadway said, “Stop that grinning! You’re in church!” With that, she gave him a belt and as the tears rolled down his cheeks added, “That’s better,” and returned to her prayers.
Suddenly, I was angry. It occurred to me that the entire world is in tears, and if you’re not, then you’d better get with it. I wanted to grab this child with the tear-stained face close to me and tell him about my God. The happy God. The smiling God. The God who had to have a sense of humor to have created the likes of us…. By tradition, one wears faith with the solemnity of a mourner, the gravity of a mask of tragedy, and the dedication of a Rotary badge.
What a fool, I thought. Here was a woman sitting next to the only light left in our civilization — the only hope, our only miracle — our only promise of infinity. If he couldn’t smile in church, where was there left to go?
A smiling Christian is much more desirable.
As Nietzche said, “If you Christians want me to believe in your redeemer, you need to look more redeemed!”