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		<title>Wednesday&#8230;.5.16.12</title>
		<link>http://www.ugumc.com/blog/index.php/2012/05/16/wednesday-5-16-12/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 May 2012 02:19:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Just have to say it and share it: I’ve spent the last two Wednesday nights talking to adults about why I believe our denomination needs to change its stance on homosexuality&#8230;moving toward full acceptance, including marriage equality. Now that I’ve done it, I’m more aware of just how blessed I am to be the pastor [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just have to say it and share it:  I’ve spent the last two Wednesday nights talking to adults about why I believe our denomination needs to change its stance on homosexuality&#8230;moving toward full acceptance, including marriage equality.  Now that I’ve done it, I’m more aware of just how blessed I am to be the pastor of such a church!  Thanks, everyone&#8230;and never think you are under-appreciated!</p>
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		<title>10 Things You Forget about Pastors&#8230;5.15.12</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 May 2012 15:25:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[From my friend, Ben Reed: 1. Preaching is a lot of work. In fact, it takes me between 20-30 hours to prepare my sermon. On top of that, I still have my normal, weekly responsibilities. Last time I checked, adding 30 hours to a work week was a pretty significant amount. The best sermons take [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>From my friend, Ben Reed:</p>
<p>1. Preaching is a lot of work.</p>
<p>In fact, it takes me between 20-30 hours to prepare my sermon. On top of that, I still have my normal, weekly responsibilities. Last time I checked, adding 30 hours to a work week was a pretty significant amount. The best sermons take time to marinate. Which means that if you enjoyed the sermon…it probably took longer than normal to prepare.</p>
<p>2. Preaching is stressful.</p>
<p>If you mess up in your job, your boss might get upset with you. If we mess up…God is upset with us. I’d rather get the stink eye from your boss than mine any day. </p>
<p>3. Preaching has a lot of moving parts.</p>
<p>We feel the weight of preaching the Scriptures faithfully, in an engaging way, every time. We have to balance humor, theology, and application, making sure to pepper in just the right number of illustrations, but not too many so that people remember the illustration and not the Truth. That’s a lot to balance on a small stage.</p>
<p>4. We don’t always have it all figured out.</p>
<p>We don’t know it all. Or have all of the answers. Or have every truth we’re preaching on mastered. Growing up, I assumed that my pastor knew everything. Now that I’m in that role, I realize that we don’t.</p>
<p>5. We get worn out, too.</p>
<p>Delivering a sermon is physically, emotionally, and spiritually draining. Expect that we’ll be pretty zapped afterwards. After all, “they” say that delivering a sermon is equivalent to 8 hours of work.</p>
<p>6. If you tell us some important detail on a Sunday morning, we’ll probably forget it.</p>
<p>Feel free to tell us, but follow that up with an email. We’ll thank you later. It’s not that we don’t care in the moment…it’s that our minds are racing, and we often have hundreds of thoughts and ideas we’re wrestling with.</p>
<p>7. Preaching is a gift, but it doesn’t always feel that way.</p>
<p>Some days, it feels more like work. I’d love to say that every time we preach, the heavens open up and God gives us great joy in the preparation and in the delivery. But I’d be lying…sometimes it doesn’t feel like a gift.</p>
<p>8. Criticisms need to wait.</p>
<p>Seriously, if you have a bone to pick, call us on Tuesday. We’ll be in a much better spot to handle criticism then, than on your way out the door on Sunday.</p>
<p>9. We see you texting.</p>
<p>Don’t act like you’ve listened to our sermon…we know better.</p>
<p>10. We have to do it all again next week.</p>
<p>Most preachers preach every week. In fact, most preachers preach on Sunday, Sunday night, and then again on Wednesday night. The work of a pastor is never done.</p>
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		<title>Last Minute Thoughts about Amendment One&#8230;5.8.12</title>
		<link>http://www.ugumc.com/blog/index.php/2012/05/08/last-minute-thoughts-about-amendment-one-5-7-12/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 May 2012 14:43:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Please click on the link below for an excellent, Christ-like perspective&#8230;.sk http://www.cleveland.com/schultz/index.ssf/2004/11/ohio_pulls_away_the_welcome_ma.html]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Please click on the link below for an excellent, Christ-like perspective&#8230;.sk<br />
<a href="http://www.cleveland.com/schultz/index.ssf/2004/11/ohio_pulls_away_the_welcome_ma.html">http://www.cleveland.com/schultz/index.ssf/2004/11/ohio_pulls_away_the_welcome_ma.html</a></p>
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		<title>Corporal Punishment in School&#8230;5.6.12</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 07 May 2012 21:26:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Just watching the news and saw the debate going on in Burke County Schools regarding whether paddling should be taken off the list of punishment options. Here’s my take, for schools and parents: I think that most of us would agree that one of the most despicable acts we know of is for a man [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just watching the news and saw the debate going on in Burke County Schools regarding whether paddling should be taken off the list of punishment options.  Here’s my take, for schools and parents:</p>
<p>I think that most of us would agree that one of the most despicable acts we know of is for a man to hit a woman.  In fact, we have laws against that.  And yet, when it comes to the weakest, most vulnerable in our society, our children, hitting/spanking/paddling is ok?  Physical violence begets physical violence.  Most school districts in NC don’t allow it.  I’m hoping that soon, none will.  </p>
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		<title>Lincoln’s Courage&#8230;5.1.12</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 01 May 2012 19:18:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[“If it is decreed that I should go down because of this speech, then let me go down linked to the truth. Let me die in advocacy of what is just and right.” Abraham Lincoln Maybe if we were more concerned with truth, and less concerned with tradition, we could be as brave as President [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>“If it is decreed that I should go down because of this speech, then let me go down linked to the truth.  Let me die in advocacy of what is just and right.”  Abraham Lincoln</p>
<p>Maybe if we were more concerned with truth, and less concerned with tradition, we could be as brave as President Lincoln.  We would certainly need to be.</p>
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		<title>Our Innate Drive?   4.30.12</title>
		<link>http://www.ugumc.com/blog/index.php/2012/04/30/our-innate-drive-4-30-12/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Apr 2012 13:39:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[“So long as man remains free he strives for nothing so incessantly and so painfully as to find some one to worship.” Dostoevsky]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>“So long as man remains free he strives for nothing so incessantly and so painfully as to find some one to worship.” Dostoevsky</p>
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		<title>THE MARRIAGE AMENDMENT&#8230;4.24.12</title>
		<link>http://www.ugumc.com/blog/index.php/2012/04/24/the-marriage-amendment-4-24-12/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Apr 2012 15:32:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In my travels in and around Iredell County, I’ve seen a lot of signs urging people to vote for the so-called Marriage Amendment. My suspicion is that the majority of voters are not informed on this issue, and therefore believe that it is only about the prohibition of gay marriage. Such is not the case. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In my travels in and around Iredell County, I’ve seen a lot of signs urging people to vote for the so-called Marriage Amendment.  My suspicion is that the majority of voters are not informed on this issue, and therefore believe that it is only about the prohibition of gay marriage.  Such is not the case.  I will be voting against the amendment for the following reasons:<br />
1.  It is not needed.  Gay marriage is already unlawful in NC.<br />
2.  It bars recognizing any legal domestic union other than marriage, including unmarried men and women partnerships.<br />
3.  Legal battles challenging the amendment, if passed, will drag on for years.<br />
4.  It would take away legal protections for children of unmarried people.<br />
5.  A child could be taken away from a parent who has taken care of him/her for his/her entire life if something happens to the other parent.<br />
6.  It will take away domestic violence protections for all unmarried people, and has led to the convictions of abusers being overturned in other states.<br />
7.  It will strip health benefits from unmarried people whose coverage is through their partners, including those with severe pre-existing conditions.<br />
8.  It will interfere with medical and financial decisions of unmarried couples, and invalidate certain trusts, wills, and end-of-life directives.<br />
9.  Seniors who want to keep their legal protections would have to marry and could lose pensions, heath care, and Social Security benefits.<br />
10.  Our state constitution has rarely been used to take away rights, rather than grant them.</p>
<p>This is my opinion, and does not necessarily reflect the opinion any other person or organization.  It is also my opinion that this legislation is mean-spirited, narrow, and will cause much suffering if passed.  SK</p>
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		<title>Link to the Lyrics of the Song Below</title>
		<link>http://www.ugumc.com/blog/index.php/2012/04/23/link-to-the-lyrics-of-the-song-below/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Apr 2012 14:26:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[just in case you have difficulty understanding the words&#8230; http://www.cowboylyrics.com/lyrics/dement-iris/let-the-mystery-be-11276.html]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>just in case you have difficulty understanding the words&#8230; http://www.cowboylyrics.com/lyrics/dement-iris/let-the-mystery-be-11276.html</p>
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		<title>Let the Mystery Be&#8230;4.23.12</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Apr 2012 14:07:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ya’ll will know that this is NOT my kind of music, but it IS my kind of theology. Listen&#8230;and pay attention to the words. Blessings!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ya’ll will know that this is NOT my kind of music, but it IS my kind of theology.  Listen&#8230;and pay attention to the words.  Blessings!</p>
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		<title>NC Pastors Talking about the Marriage Amendment&#8230;4.20.12</title>
		<link>http://www.ugumc.com/blog/index.php/2012/04/20/nc-pastors-talking-about-the-marriage-amendment-4-20-12/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Apr 2012 02:05:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Steve</dc:creator>
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